‘Simple Transformation’
Growing up was tough for me. I felt unloved, unappreciated, and unworthy, and had to deal with a lot of emotional trauma in a negative household. I tried to take my life three times but failed. I often wanted to leave home to escape the verbal abuse and emotional demons. I stayed with different guardians who tried to help, but they had their own issues, and I felt like I made things worse for them. I finished school under strict conditions, facing challenges like walking 10 km to school and struggling to afford public transport. I struggled with self-doubt and negativity, hiding my true self under a false persona. I realized that my negative thoughts and mindset led to negative outcomes in my life.
Our conditioning is deeply entrenched due to our past trauma. This conditioning seeks to destroy us, especially in situations that trigger our past. It’s as if we always have to be on guard for any ‘red flags’ and be ready to charge like a bull towards a matador (bullfighter). We’ve created our mental hell due to our weakness in standing strong against the force of our minds. But we can change all of this!
We always have a choice to help silence the noise (past trauma) in our heads. I had the option to become who I am today despite my circumstances. I’ve made the choice and a lifelong commitment to manage my internal demons. Transforming our negative situations into positive ones takes a certain amount of effort and skill. I’ve learned and transformed my internal struggle into a manageable system for my life. This leap of faith has brought me tremendous success. I’ve had the opportunity to travel worldwide, become a homeowner, author three successful books, become an internationally certified life coach, have a beautiful and supportive wife, and run a successful life coaching business.
You must detach yourself from things that undermine your purpose, worth, and value.
‘Hold On’
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